Saturday, May 18, 2019

How to Hook Up for the First Time

How to Hook Up for the First Time

 Hooking up with someone can be ecstasy and terrifying at the same time, this depends on how well prepared you are. This can be scary as well, you may feel you are not ready to show off your body to a total stranger. The mere idea of getting into a steamy sexual relationship with beautiful Individuals is a very provoking idea. At times it’s hard to handle the whole situation considering the adrenaline involved to some people. If you are someone who has a challenge, here are some tips that will help.
1) Plan an Activity Before Hand
If you are able to spend some time beforehand to help relax your mind the better. You can have activities like going out for dinner, a walk or even dance before diving into the act. This helps both of you get a bit comfortable with each other before doffing down. It creates a comfortable and relaxing environment for the main thing.
2) Break the shackles off your mind
The first thing you need to do is to get out of your own head. You might be tense or anxious, but always remember that a hook up is supposed to be fun. You owe it not only to yourself but also to your partner. A hook up is when two individuals get to reconnoiter their sexuality to gain desire. Don't think too much about it. Just get yourself thrilled and let your desire take over.
3) Be Calm in your mind
Take a deep breath this will help you come down. Set boundaries early enough. Sharing what you enjoy before having sex also helps you to cool down. When two Individuals are having sex, there will always be breathing patterns you can pick up on. When you synchronize your breathing with your partner's, it not only calms your mind but it also brings both of you together.
4) Be at a place you are comfortable
Location is key. Ensure you are at the place you are comfortable. After having the exotic experience are you comfortable to sleep or leave at your pleasure? Be comfortable with each other’s body. Have good foreplay to warm yourself into sex. For safety reasons share the location with a friend or two just in case things don’t go as expected they can pick you up and save the day.
5) Eye and body contact
A causal relationship or a hook up is all about being Intimate with someone and enjoying your time with them. What better way is there to be intimate with someone than looking them in the eye and being playful? Look at your partner right in the eye with that sensational look and play around with their hair or touch them on their arms. Caress your partner, learn and enjoy the part of their bodies that bring excitement for more fun. You can know about all the erogenous zones on the human body but it's easy to tell when someone is just being technical and not natural. Let your desire and the atmosphere guide you and you will have a great time.
6) Be Strong to say No when you are not Comfortable and be Respectful
It's ok to be a little aggressive if that's what both of you enjoy, but be able to say no on any move that you are not comfortable with. Also, don't automatically assume that your partner will be open to any and all sexual activities. Some might be open to it, but they want to get there on their own and don't like to be forced. Always remember that your partner is a human being with expectations and fantasies. Before you have sex, you need to know what their fantasies are and what they dislike. Have a common ground.
7) Don't go in with any expectations
It’s natural to anticipate that the experience will be perfect, but when you don’t know the person it’s paramount not to have any expectation. This is a difficult thing to do because all of us have expectations when it comes to experiences. A causal relationship or a hook up breeds an atmosphere of satisfaction, non-judgment and pure pleasure.
8) Be honest
If you don't like what your partner is doing to you, let them know. They surely wouldn't want you to go through something you don't enjoy. You can be open to new experiences or sexual positions but you can also tell them if you don't enjoy them.  It’s nice to say something good. If it was fun and you had a good time let them know.
9) Use protection
It goes without saying. It is so important to use protection especially for the first time of having sex with a stranger. Carry it with you don’t assume they have them just ensure you play safe. But in case you happen to forget, follow up with a doctor ASAP.
10) Say Goodbye in Style
Saying goodbye with a kiss, a tight hug or even a butt in the back is a good way to show you enjoyed the sex. This happens whether you spend the whole night together or you leave immediately. You never know this be the beginning of a long-term relationship. Oops don’t worry if you forgot your earrings or necklace it happens at times. And if you enjoyed yourself and you would like it to happen again, the items left behind will be a good reason to visit.

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